Today’s
post is a supplement to the previous one about
Horseman’s Hammers.
Monday, 1 October 2012
Horseman's Hammers again
Sunday, 30 September 2012
How not to Charm a Girl
I have talked about awareness often
in this blog and my book. Not only is paying more attention to your
surroundings a good defence strategy, it can also be educational and
entertaining. Perhaps you have gathered by now I am something of a people
watcher.
So,
I am sitting in the pub last night, waiting for one and hopefully both of the
exceptional women I have invited will turn up soon. Two girls join me at my
table. One we will charitably call “cuddly”. She may have been carrying a bit
more weight around the middle than was good for her, but her face was slim and
quite pretty and she has nice ringleted hair. Her friend reminds me of Eileen
Daly from “Razor Blade Smile” (below), which is no bad thing in my book. She wears a
lace fronted top that displays very pleasant expanse of sideboob and upper
belly. Their manners are pleasant too. We exchange a few words and jokes and
chat a little before I let them resume their conversation. Basically these are
two decent looking, pleasant girls and I might have paid them more attention if
I had not already arranged to meet my other friends.
After
a while two lads approach the table. I think I had nipped to the bar to get a
drink so the girls appeared to be on their own. Trying to chat up a girl when
she is with a man is of course generally a bad idea, irrespective of the actual
relationship between them. You are effectively saying that man is a nonentity
and beneath consideration. These guys had approached politely and respectfully
and the girls were obviously keen to talk to them, I had my own company on the
way so I sat back to enjoy the show. What was particularly funny was that this
bar was very noisy and it became evident that the only person hearing both
sides of the conversation was me.
Guy “We don’t want to interrupt!”
Girl “You need to grow up? Ok!”
Things
progress, or not as the case may be. The Australian guy hits it off with “Ringlets”
and before long they are side by side, leaning in towards each other and
finding excuses to touch each other. Virtually textbook. On the other side of
the table “Eileen” is obviously not doing so well. In fact I wouldn’t have
needed my body reading skills, since several times she looked across, made eye
contact with me and gave me as exasperated look. “Eileen” rolled a cigarette
and announced she was going outside for a smoke. Trying to give this guy a bit
of a clue, since he didn’t seem to have one, I asked:-
“You
not going to join her?”
“I
don’t smoke” he said, oblivious to anything else.
She
was outside for some time so I try again:-
“She’s
been a while. Why don’t you check she is OK”
“Nah”
Either
this guy was totally clueless or he was totally immune to “Eileen’s” charms,
which were not inconsiderable.
Over
the last couple of years I have often got to see just how bad the chat-up
techniques of many men out there are. My girlfriend is a stunningly attractive
woman and it is a rare night when if at least one guy does not attempt to hit
on her while she is away from me. Some will try and hit on her while I am close
by, probably assuming an old ugly guy like me cannot have anything to do with
her. She has told me that I was one of the very few guys who actually offered
to buy her a drink! I did see one guy offer her a drink, but he was clutching
his phone in his hand like a security blanky, so he did not cut an impressive
figure!
Saturday, 29 September 2012
Chinese Soft Weapons
Busy day today! Off for a drink with my girl, and if we are lucky another exceptional young woman will be able to join us. An interesting seeming book I came across on Scribd, which I have yet to have time to read myself. Don't wait up for me.
Soft Weapons
Soft Weapons
Friday, 28 September 2012
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